At times, the planning of your big day can feel overwhelming and frustrating. Even the most organised of brides, can feel a little lost, especially when dealing with finances, other people and timelines. Here are some 'Hints and Tips' which may help you get to your big day without the extra grey hairs!
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Choose your bridal party wisely and manage your expectations of them. Work with their strengths not their challenges.
Some people don't enjoy the constant discussions of your big day (I know, right!?!!?) Often, it works well to have someone in your corner who can remain impartial and will enjoy the brainstorming, opinion sharing and a little bit of counselling for the moments when you need to vent or have a little cry. A work bestie or similar works well.
Do your friends of family members have special talents? Use them! People will want to help, let them.
Invite your guests to be part of the day as much as possible. Anything intimate, activities such as photobooths or even the simple invitation to guests that they are welcome to approach you both for photos is a nice touch.
While the little details are important, if the budget does not allow it, use alternatives. Remember the day is about the both of you! People will appreciate the little details but they will fall in love with the magic of the two of you.
Sometimes the suppliers and the people providing a service to your day can be frustrating to deal with. This can impact how you are feeling about the day. Explain to them that you are frustrated, work together on a solution and delegate to someone you can trust where possible.
Don't underestimate the value of a makeup touch up kit!
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Know your budget and stick to it. There are heaps of options available on the internet for Do It Yourself options which will lower the costs. AND, don't forget to delegate this task if possible!
Food is important. Keep your guests fed and deliciously full. This applies to your bridal party also! Its a long day, don't forget to have food and nibbles available during the day.
If you can, take some time out after the ceremony and before the reception to spend time with just the two of you and 'be married' before the hectic reception. Sneaking away for a beer/champagne is a wonderful opportunity. The photographer will be able to capture some unstaged and memorable special moments.
If the planning is getting too stressful, take a step back. Have some things that you and your partner can do which will help you both reconnect with each other and/or with the purpose of the day. Go for a walk together, talk about what is most important, have a date night, a drink on the verandah OR both of you scream into a pillow! The planning can be frustrating, and that's ok, but work together to come out the other end.
Have a plan B for any unexpected weather. Rain or extreme heat can be very stressful and will contribute to how you both feel on the day of your wedding. The need for last minute organising should be minimised where possible and delegated to someone you trust.
Provide your photographer a list of people you want photos with and have someone special coordinate this. Also advise those people you want photos with before the day so they know to follow you after the ceremony.
You can take into consideration the advice and requests of others, but remember it is your day to celebrate with the love of your life so be careful not to get too caught up and lose the focus of the day trying to please everyone else.
Lots of love for your special day!
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